USED vs. LOVED

While a man was polishing his new car,his 4 yr old son picked up a stoneand scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times not realizinghe was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father..... with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions..... . sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovelylife & remember this: Things are to be used and people are to be loved.The problem in today's world is that people are used while things are loved.
Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used, People are to be loved.

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the mysterious love

If you find yourself in love with someone
who does not love you, be gentle with yourself.

There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose
to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and
you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and
called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do
not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you,
and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even
if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in
love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try
to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go.

There is a reason and there is a meaning.

You will know in time .

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.
Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.

Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

There is where many lovers go wrong.

Having been so long without love, they understand
love only as a need.

They see their hearts as empty places
that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something
that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing,
but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.

They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone
who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is
that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has
its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for
coming and going.

You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason
it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it
away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your
heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do
and there is nothing you should do.

Love has always been and will always be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

"Trust in yourself. Your perceptions are often far more accurate than you are willing to believe."

In your eyes...

In your eyes I am anything you want me to be
When I feel the sun, I know we are both one
In the parks where we walk
I hear birds sing and listen to angels as they talk
In your heart I will always be
Because you are a part of me
I keep a smile upon my face
I feel beautiful when in your embrace
Keep me in your arms
I know you will always keep me safe from harm
In your eyes I can see the stars
When I look at the moon, I watch it shine
All my life I will feel your strength
Forever is a long long time
In your eyes, give me your heart and soul
I will hold on and never let you go
You love me, I do not have to pretend
You are the one I will stay with until the world ends
In your eyes, I find peace of mind
You kiss me with such tender care
In your eyes I know you want to marry me
Love like ours is so very rare
Take me over the rainbows
Into the clouds, and through the trees
For there is no one else
I could ever need
In your eyes, I stand out in a crowd
We are together, I do love you so much now.

Do you love me when the stars are out
Can you see where I am
The brightest star tonight
Do you love me when you see the moon
As the world turns, can you reach out and touch
Me
Is my hair soft and golden,
Are my eyes close to you
Do you love me when the sun shines on a flower
Can you smell the grass and trees
Is that where you will find me
I want to be all of yours
Will you look at a butterfly and know I have
passed by
Do you love me when you see a rainbow
Is my heart beating in time or space
Will you come to me if I close my eyes
I see you as I read many books to learn
My soul is calling yours, will you answer
You speak in every language
I hear your voice in the distance
I see you everywhere I turn.
Do you love me when I am walking near the ocean
As the seagulls sing above
And the sky remind? me of the blue in your eyes
I want you to be part of who I am
And when you do, we will be as one
I have an unconditional love,
Which I would like you to share
Do you see my heart loving you,
Until the end is near.

Ho gayee bersaat aankhon aankhon main...

Guzar gayee raat aankhon aankhon main,

Ho gayee mulaaqaat aankhon aankhon main.

Sadiyon se pyaasi thee mohabbat,

Ho gayee bersaat aankhon aankhon main.

Mil na sake the dil kabhi dil se,

Ho gayee mulaaqaat aankhon aankhon main.

Ehadewafa aur qasamon ki bhi,

Ho gayee shuruaat aankhon aankhon main.

De diya dil ek doojey ko,

Ho gayee saugaat aankhon aankhon main

Keep Smiling Always...

Don't blame anyone, never complain of anyone or anythingBecause basically you have made of your life what you wanted.Accept the difficulties of edifying yourselfAnd the worth of starting to correct your character.The triumph of the true man arises from the ashes of his mistakes.Never complain of your loneliness or your luck.Face it with courage and accept it.
Somehow, they are the result of your acts andIt shows that you'll always win.Don't feel frustrated of your own failures, neither unload them to someone else.Accept yourself now or you'll go on justifying yourself like a child.Remember that any time is good to startAnd that no time is so good to give up.Don't forget that the cause of your present is your past,As the cause of your future will be your present.Learn from the brave, from the strong,From who doesn't accept situationsFrom who will live in spite of everything.Think less of your problems and more of your work.Learn to arise from your pain,And to be greater than the greatest of your obstacles.Look at the mirror of yourself and you'll be free and strongAnd you'll stop being a puppet of circumstances.For you yourself are your destiny.Wake up and stare at the sun in the mornings and breathe the sun of dawn.You're part of the strength of your life now,Rise up, fight, walk, be sure and you'll win in life.Don't ever think of 'fate'For fate is the excuse of failures.

"The person who is always smiling doesn't mean that he has no problems..

But the smile shows that he has ability to overcome all those problems.."

Keep Smiling and Have a lovely day ahead॥!!

…Ravi Srivastava
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Like a single drop of water

Like a single drop of water which causes never-ending ripples...

A single thought of good can create a pleasant day………

Each of those single thoughts is important…

Make it all good...

If you feel you want to cry...

If at times you feel you want to cry
And life seems such a trial
Above the clouds there's a bright blue sky
So make your tears a smile.
As you travel on life's way
With its many ups and downs
Remember it's quite true to say
One smile is worth a dozen frowns.
Among the worlds expensive things
A smile is very cheap
And when you give a smile away,
You get one back to keep.
Happiness comes at times to all
But sadness comes unbidden
And sometimes a few tears must fall
Among the laughter hidden.
So when friends have sadness on their face
And troubles round them piled
The world will seem a better place
And all because you smiled.

...Ravi
'YADEIN'
http://ravi-yadein.blogspot.com/

आज का दिन दोस्तों के नाम...

ख़ुद पर भरोसा हैं तो खुदा तेरे साथ हैं,
अपनों पर भरोसा हैं तो हर दुआ तेरे साथ हैं,
ज़िन्दगी से कभी मत हारना मेरे दोस्त,
जब तक तेरा यह दोस्त तेरे साथ हैं।

हम दोस्ती को पुरा निभाना जानते हैं,
ज़ख्म तुम्हारे कितने भी गहरे हों...
हम दावा लगाना जानते हैं,
हमे भूलने कि कोशिश मत करना दोस्त,
हम और भी याद आना जानते हैं।

हर कदम पे साथ निभाया जिन दोस्तों ने,

आज उनको तहे दिल से सलाम करते हैं,

यूँ तो पुरी उमर भी कम हैं दोस्ती कि लिए,
फिलहाल आज का दिन दोस्तों के नाम करते हैं.

...रवि
'यादें'
http://ravi-yadein.blogspot.com/

Be Happy with Love & Life

We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we're frustrated that the kids aren't old enough and we'll be more content when they are.
After that, we're frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with.
We'll certainly be happy when they're out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car,
are able to go on a nice vacation, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza. He said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with...and remember that time waits for no one. So, stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you're off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink,
until you've sobered up, until you die,
until you're born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a journey, not a destination. So work like you don't need money,Love like you've never been hurt,And dance like no one's watching.

The Mysterious Thing Called LOVE ...

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.

If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time .

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in anyway you can. There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need. They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.

Love has always been and will always be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.
...Ravi
'YADEIN'
http://ravi-yadein.blogspot.com/